Currently I’m in the middle of The Mary Russell Series, Wrinkle in Time Quartet and Strangers in Paradise–all of these are re-reads, all of them are theologically relevant, and all of them balance into the complex person that I am 🙂 Cheers!
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Moms in Ministry
A nice shout out to the blogs of workings moms, especially those in ministry!
http://christianitypaused.blogspot.com/2013/03/mims-word.html
“I don’t think it’s going to work….
“I don’t think that’s going to work” This remark was not made as a criticism, but as a statement of what this person saw as the facts of the situation.
“I don’t think people are going to let go”
“Well, that is what we are going to have to learn” I responded
Ultimately we discussed the matter a little more and it ended with the remark “I don’t think people are going to change”
To which I replied “I have to believe they can, or I can’t be a pastor–I have to believe people will change for the better an learn to work together, otherwise what am I doing here?”
Ah, Truth!
What controversial issue was I discussing? Something about technology or homosexuality, something to do with theology or principles? Some issue about the order of worship or where church takes place or who is sitting in what pews (these issues are so often where the rubber hits the road in ministry)
Nope:
Name: Pastor Katy
Quest: To minister to the body of Christ so that we can build the Kingdom of God
Current Mission: To get people to share in the leadership of the Farmer’s Market.
That’s it, the issue is the people who ran the farmer’s market last year have some very important grandparenting duties this summer, plus it was a super-duper-success last year
So I told them, I wanted to put two people in charge of the Farmer’s Market in June, July and August (with me to open and close in May and Sept/Oct). I started out by noting that
a. delegating is harder work than doing it yourself
b. people are not going to be doing things exactly as we want them
c. BUT its important that people are invested.
Here is the test of ministry, not on theology or worship but politics. How do we work together as a community–but I have said it before and I’ll say it again. I believe the church exists ultimately as community builders–that is true
Kingdom building work, and its hard, its messy and its dirty–but there it is!!!
Now to figure out how to do it!!!!

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The Art of Asking
How can we give away our fruit? How can we build community? How can we stop looking at the bottom line?
Or my take on it, how can we be fig trees https://katyandtheword.wordpress.com/2013/03/03/the-fig-tree/
The Fig Tree
One day Jesus told a parable (Luke 13:1-9)…there was a fig tree and the master came out to inspect it.
“This tree has been here 3 years and never produced fruit, cut it down”
“Tell you what, I’ll dig out a new home for the tree and give it fresh fertilizer (and water), why don’t you wait a year and see if it produces fruit then” the gardener persuaded
“Fine but if it doesn’t grow, chop it down”
And that is the end of the story…no resolution, no happily ever after, why?
Because the point of the story is the need for nourishment, as the kids in church said today, chopping down a tree isn’t going to help it to produce fruit, but encouragement does…
But digging even deeper into the story, we have to wonder, what is the point of the fig tree producing fruit anyway? Here it goes to all the trouble of growing fruit for what…
to nourish itself?
to have it sit there forever?
to help itself to grow bigger and stronger?
No, it does it so that some other creature can eat its fruit! The usefulness of the tree is not in the tree structure itself; the tree was growing just fine without any fruit, but in how it nourishes others…
And that, my friend is the church, we exist not to nourish or help ourselves, but to share our fruits with others.
If we have no fruit, if we go on upholding our structure, then we are not, in fact, successful.
There is a theory (probably most famously put forth in the book “Bowling Alone”) that society embraced and loved institutions in the 1950s. There were many groups that flourished in this time: scouts, elks, bowling clubs, churches. Churches adapted the institutional structure and did as well as the rest.
Today the structure is to make your own kind of community. You do yoga alone, you make connections online and through relay rides and couchsurfers (for my thoughts on millennials read here). But, that doesn’t mean the hunger/the thirst for God isn’t still there (Psalm 63 was paired with the fig tree gospel reading for a reason). People long for a spirituality that feeds them, has integrity (***please note, I do not mean they want a vending machine or religion that caters to their every whim, but something that is both relevant and still full of integrity), and one that practices what it preaches–supporting social justice & those in need. Millennials have just internalized the independent nature of our culture (I’ll do it alone, in fact I’ll make a community all on my own) hence: Spiritual but not religious. Church’s need to figure out how to nourish that independent nature so it too can produce fruit.
Its like a Farmer’s Market where people want to take responsibility for their food by connecting to the people who grow it…How can church be less like a supermarket and more like a Farmer’s Market?
After all, Jesus came and gave his ENTIRE LIFE as nourishment for all of us, that is why we (Presbyterians) practice open communion, because everyone gets to share in the spiritual fruits of Christ!
I’m not saying bowling is better than yoga or vice versa, I’m saying that when the church is able to make spiritual fruit to nourish others, that is called ministry! (again we are back to the Farmer’s Market at my church, how can we make it MORE nourishing)
How can we, as a church, make the fruit to nourish others.
PS do you know olive trees live thousands of years? In the Garden of Gethsemane I was able to see some fig trees which, in all likelihood, stood while Jesus prayed right before his crucifixion. So really, giving a church/person/tree of a couple of years when we can grow and be shaped by thousands is looking at things from a human perspective…How much more can God see, from where she sits? Here is a picture of some of those ACTUAL trees!
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Life, Fairy Tales, God, Children: How Katy Works
Why do I go to church?
You know, most people my age don’t go to church
Most of them don’t even believe in religion
They may believe in God, but if they do it tends not to be the “standard” version of God
These people are usually identified as “nones‘ (which is kind of a detrimental name, even though I know it isn’t meant that way…maybe we should be calling them/us something else) Something like 75% of people my age don’t affiliate in their religion
(for more about why I include myself, a pastor, in this at times, please read my post “I don’t Know What I believe”)
But I believe in God….Life is just too short to be meaningless…
Meaningless is just too hopeless to be believed
And people are just to wonderful to give up on….
And because of these truths, I believe in God….I know that not everyone believes what I believe, and I don’t mind (usually). As long as you aren’t preaching hate as gospel, I’m pretty ok with most beliefs…after all I’m not the one who is going to judge whether the fig tree is bearing fruit. That is up to the boss.
What I do worry about, is my generation in terms of willingness to try to religion. Have we given up? Do we truly think it has nothing to offer? Does the bad really outweigh the good? Do we think that we can only find our own spirituality outside of church? (What does that have to say about church, but what does that also have to say about us).
I recently learned that millenials are those of us born between 1980 and 2000. Here is what we have in common.
We grew up in a boom, but came into maturity in a economic downturn/depression
We are the children of baby boomers
We tend to be called hipsters
We don’t have a lot of life opportunities: jobs, marriages, having children–>we have to put these things off
We were all born in a pre 9/11 reality
We grew up with Harry Potter
We like individuality–but tend not to rebel, but instead go off our own way
We are thought of as ungrateful and lazy
We don’t have a strong religiousity
Yet here I am: mother, fairy tale enthusiast and pastor. Here I am, trying to figure out if I have a strong enough call to conduct a ministry via sci-fi and fantasy that I need to invent something to do this.
In a lot of ways I am “old-fashioned” for my age. I am young, married, have three children and an “old-fashioned” kind of job that carries with it healthcare and a pension (at least for now). And yet, I feel the pain of those around me. I too am physically weighed dow
n by student debt that I’m terrified I’ll never get rid of, I too understand that completeness and fulfillment will not fully come from my employment (hmm…that should be on the list above).
So I guess I’ll keep at it, hang onto the understanding th
at my concept of religion and my relationship with God is helpful to some of the people in my life, and that people will or won’t join churches on their own, and its not my responsibility.
Still–and take this for what its worth–I like church and I believe in God…
Katy likes it! Hopefully if/when you are interested you can find a place that fits you too!
Meanderings…
The snow looks painted.
Spring hinted in the cold and the wet
and the shadows at night pattern the leftover snow, that which hasn’t melted, into paint
and a thousand things flick through my brain, skittering across the blacks and whites
all the things I intend, the dreams I still wish, the responsibilities of the world
why do things only happen when I’m busy? Why do I have so much to get done?
Good problems to have
February is only 28 days, because who can bear for it to be longer
welcome March….
Dear Child: Faith is a journey. –Love God
Faith is a journey, and sometimes that journey isn’t an easy one.
But as we learn more and more about Jesus, here is what we learned
1. Jesus did ministry on the move. You notice that Jesus is almost always making his way between cities? Sure Israel is the size of the New Jersey but the journey from Jerusalem to Galilee is about 240 miles, and Jesus walked that more than once.
2. Jesus believed in packing light, but he also believed in good traveling companions—Jesus asks us to take no extra baggage, but to always remember to take a friend, so if you are considering going on a visit for church, pursuing ministry or just doing something new in your spiritual life, Jesus recommends doing it with someone else. (which is why I advocate Co-Pastorships)
3. The Holy Spirit guides us—just as it guided Jesus Christ, we need to remember that we are following Christ’s footsteps, and we have the best guide, we just need to take the time to listen to what God is doing.
4. Its called walking in “Jesus’s Footsteps” not “Sitting in Jesus’s Pews.” My Church’s Farmer’s Market has been a giant step outside of our sanctuary (which is sad that this is a big step, nevertheless its great we’ve done-so) , but we need to figure out where Christ is going, and how to follow him there (as opposed to say, staying where we are and assuming that God wants us to stay there forever)
5. Jesus took Sabbath: Jesus escaped the crowds, he rode boats, he ate with friends, he prayed alone. He found ways to take a break for himself and his ministry, so that he could recharge for the next one.
6. Jesus did not have a checklist. Jesus did not have any requirements for following him—he did not require gold, food or certain characteristics. You can bet one of the disciples was the person who always complained about everything, and another one was that nice but not too bright person, and that one of them had a mental illness, one of them was socially awkward and one of them talked incessantly, while another wouldn’t talk at all. Yet Jesus invited them all to journey with him. He didn’t even require belief (instead he fostered it). He just asked people to come exactly as they were.
What can we do?
Recently I’ve been thinking about how to better meet and get to know the community. What are their needs? What are their prayer concerns?
Maybe we should have a prayer concern board out at the farmer’s market. Maybe we should have projects to thank all those who serve the community (nurses, EMTs, police, Firefighters), maybe we should fundraise for the poor, maybe we should give out free meals, maybe we should grow our own garden to donate fresh food, maybe we should provide a space for people to pray—as you can I’m full of ideas. In fact, at times I get carried away, and it can be overwhelming for others. But, I am confident that we have important things to do, and we are capable to do them!
Project Fairy Tale: Snow White and Rose Red
One of my favorite authors/books
Fairy Tale Addendum
Books with Good Movie Adaptations
The Princess Bride by William Goldman: Comic Fairy Tale (same tone as the movie, with more plot) same writer as the movie. (actually thought S. Morgenstern wrote this growing up) 
Stardust by Neil Gaiman: A star fell to earth, a man vows to retrieve her to win his bride. Stars, Lovers, Quests. Read it in story or comic form (another good movie adaptation)–oh and it has been filed as a kids, young adult, fantasy and adult book, hows that for the power of a fairy tale!!

The Hobbit by J. R. R. Tolkien: Way more a fairy tale than Lord of the Rings, yay quests!
The Last Unicorn by Peter S. Beagle: The Last unicorn goes on an adventure to try to find her kind and save the world
Children’s Fairy Stories (which are even better when you are an adult)
The Reluctant Dragon by Kenneth Grahame and Earnest H. Shepard (Illustrator): Dragons and Knights don’t quite fight, and its awesome (and the cartoon is fun if you skip the live action stuff)

The Ordinary Princess by M. M. Kaye Princess Amy is gifted with ordinariness–and finds her own way to special happiness

(totally think Enchanted Forest series is a brilliant combo of The Reluctant Dragon & Ordinary Princess)
The Little White Horse: by Elizabeth Goudge and Walter Hodges (Illustrator)Â Maria Merryweather comes as a orphan and finds the Moon Princess, and a way to help the entire Valley (an inspirational story for most fantasy writers today)

The Light Princess & Other Fairy Stories and The Golden Key and Other Stories by George MacDonald: a favorite of C. S. Lewis. Longer than Grimm’s fairy tales the characters are SO engaging and very traditional fairy tales!




