Rest is Resistance Week 4

A brain with laundry, baby, a man helping, groceries, dinner, baby at the doctors, sewing an elephant and eyes opened wide clearly overwhelmed image from https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/11/parenting/mental-load.html

Week 4 “Who was I before the terror of the toxic systems? p. 56
Psalm 127:1-2 In vain you get up early and stay up late, sweating to make a living, because God loves us and provides for us even while we sleep. (Inclusive Bible)
Isaiah 40:31
Mark 4:36-41
(W)holistic Self

Call to Worship
(Breathe in) God created me
(Breathe out) I can create

Prayer of the Day
God
help us
to find spaces
for rest
dreaming
help us to affirm
that we can
create
without making things
teach us
to allow
…………..(Silence)…
space.
Amen.

Call to Confession: Come let us dream together with God.

Prayer of Confession: God we confess that we have trouble relaxing. We feel the waves, the pressure, the turbulent urge to make to do lists as an necessary urgency. We confess that it all feels the same–that life feels like a giant job. True rest and sanctuary seem to be impossible. Where is the pillow? We confess that we do not believe that you accomplish things while we sleep. Full truth, we do not trust you enough for that God. Forgive us, and teach us how to find that Sabbath, rest and sanctuary we pray. (Silent confession) Amen.

Assurance of Pardon: Hear the Good News: God dreamt us into being, and God loves us into wholeness. Know the good news: In Jesus Christ we are forgiven.

Suggested Rest Practices
Rest Poem p. 101 (read to congregation)
Have everyone pick a “More” phrase from page 124 to silently contemplate, write, doodle, walk around with
Have everyone read kids stories to one another/Read a kids story to the congregation Intentionally, Show the pictures, do the voices
Have everyone write down their favorite song/album, make a commitment to listen to it that week

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Notes

Shared by Moneyless Society, @rainiawrites: I don’t need a workshop on work-life balance, I need the downfall of empire. By a beautiful flower (magnolia-like)

Week 4 Notes

Do you remember daydreaming as a child?

“To hear the simple and bold proclamation ‘You are doing too much. You can rest. You can just be. You can be’ is revolutionary.” p. 96

“Who taught you the capacity to dream?…When ddi your desire to daydream fade away?” p. 98 (some people think that ritual is the capacity to dream together

Twitter Post:

I’m reading a fascinating little book by Byung-Chul Han called *The Disappearance of Rituals.* In it, Han makes the provocative implication that ritual is actually a kind of “play.” With the disappearance of rituals (communal performances that cultivate recognition and stability), “The holy seriousness of play gives way to the profane seriousness of work.” Thus we become an atomized, isolated, and narcissistic society oriented toward industry instead of community. Han writes, “Rituals and ceremonies are the genuinely human acts which allow life to appear to be an enchanting, celebratory affair. Their disappearance desecrates and profanes, transforming life into mere survival. we might thus expect a re-enchantment of the world to create a healing power that could counteract collective narcissism.”

“Daydreaming is a form of rest and feels like the opening of your great doing what it’s supposed to do… A blanket of care swaddling you tightly. A comforting now. We are socialized into systems that cause us to conform and believe our worth is connected to how much we can produce…we forget how to dream. This is how grind culture continues. We internalize the lies and in turn become agents..” p 99 ex: Holy Imagination, Anne of Green Gables

Audre Lorde Poetry is not a Luxury “Poetry is not only a dream and vision: it is the skeleton architecture of our lives. It lays the foundation for a future of change a bridge across our fears of what has never been before.” p. 100 humans need art, Hogfather: Humans need to imagine justice

“All right,” said Susan. “I’m not stupid. You’re saying humans need… fantasiesto make life bearable.”

REALLY? AS IF IT WAS SOME KIND OF PINK PILL? NO. HUMANS NEED FANTASY TO BE HUMAN. TO BE THE PLACE WHERE THE FALLING ANGEL MEETS THE RISING APE.

“Tooth fairies? Hogfathers? Little—”

YES. AS PRACTICE. YOU HAVE TO START OUT LEARNING TO BELIEVE THE LITTLE LIES.

“So we can believe the big ones?”

YES. JUSTICE. MERCY. DUTY. THAT SORT OF THING.

“They’re not the same at all!”

YOU THINK SO? THEN TAKE THE UNIVERSE AND GRIND IT DOWN TO THE FINEST POWDER AND SIEVE IT THROUGH THE FINEST SIEVE AND THEN SHOW ME ONE ATOM OF JUSTICE, ONE MOLECULE OF MERCY. AND YET—

Death waved a hand.

AND YET YOU ACT AS IF THERE IS SOME IDEAL ORDER IN THE WORLD, AS IF THERE IS SOME…SOME RIGHTNESS IN THE UNIVERSE BY WHICH IT MAY BE JUDGED.

“Yes, but people have got to believe that, or what’s the point—”

MY POINT EXACTLY.”

– Terry Pratchett, Hogfather

Rest Poem p. 101 (read to congregation)

Cultivate DreamSpace p. 106-107

p. 124
More Care.
More Therapy.
More Dreams
More Daydreaming
More DreamSpace
More Meditation.
More Love.
More Calls to Say, “How Are You Feeling?”
More Love Letters.
More Bedtime Stories.
More Strength to Love.
More Naps.
More Rest.
More Sleep.
More Care.
Place Us in a Dream Trance.

“This is not a book offering a step-by-step rigid list for you to find rest in a capitalist system. As a culture, we have already given ourselves over to a rigid binary that is neither expansive nor imaginative.” p. 125

Week 4 Fear Notes

“It is rare that we ever truly behold another person’s fear’ bc people mask it.

“God is not cricitizng us for being afraid in a world haunted by so many terrors and traitors. I hear Don’t be afraid and hope that it is not a command no to fear but rather thhe nurturing voice of a God drawing near to our trembling.” p. 83-84

“Perhaps it is not the indictment of God we are sensing but our own souls turning against themselves” p. 84

“ I wouldn’t dare criticize Christ in the garden—sweating, crying pleading for God to let the cup pass from him.p. 84 This is a Christ who knew fear deeply.” My God, My God why has thou forsaken me….Or my soul thirsts for God,

“faces of fear” Past: memory and trauma, present unfolding: Pain and survival, the horror is here “nothing less to wonder but how much the horror will take form you.” p. 84

Future: abandonment, embarrassment, death, loss: the most hidden because we don’t admit these become about anxiety and control Coronavirus clung to work when we needed rest and our rhythms tend to get more and more disjointed the more we try to control Psalm 23 p. 85

“God does not bid us courage as we might perceive it. Instead, he draws us through fear’s essential sister, rest— assister who is not meant to replace fear but exist together in tension and harmony with it.” p. 86 Fear can be life saving, just don’t let it run your life 

You will not go blind. I will not let you go blind. It’s a vow that I rationally know she is incapable of making, yet this promise will still hold me if my vision goes and I come to the end of seeing before I am ready.” p. 89

“I do not consider deeply whether her vow will be kept; rather my practice is to rest in the love that compelled her to make such a promise.” p. 90Julian of Norwich Speaks of not safety but of Love

Fear communities convinces you the path is NOT love, but violence. “”Tyrants thrive in communities of fear…They’ll promise safety, power, belonging to those who require hope to attached to a person.” reverence is rooted in fear NOT integrity p. 91

Shiprah and Puah rebel with Tenderness, with babies p. 92

“Who will tremble with you?…Who will put you to sleep?…You are not foolish to fear…we’re all shaking” 

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