The shared ministry and how it plays out today!
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2014 Youth Media Awards
Visual Storytelling: Fun Books and Shows
Westley loves electronics, they are easy, they are visual, they don’t demand conversation.
In addition to building on his narrative play, we’ve been trying to encourage Westley with the stories and shows he enjoys!
I have also noticed that he likes characters like himself….those who talk minimally.
Here’s the List (off the top of my head)
Books
1. Dinosaur’s Binkit by Sandra Boynton Review: Oh No! The Binkit is missing, its hard to look for things, esp. when you can’t tell anyone where you had it last
2. Knuffle Bunny by Mo Willems Full Review Here: Lost Bunny, again frustrating (wonder how often this situation happens for my child that he wishes he can talk and he can’t)
3. Pete the Cat and His Brand New Shoes by James Dean and Eric Litwin Review: Going with the flow (which West does) the Cat keeps singing his groovy Song
4. Songs as Books/Nursery Rhymes: probably because the sound is still enjoyable even if you don’t get the words
5. Jack and the Beanstalk: Probably partially because big brother likes it, but also because you get to Stomp around yelling FEE! FIE! FO! FUM!
6. Beauty and the Beast (Disney) the Comic Book because a. we are familiar with the story b. lots and lots of pictures
Shows
1. Pingo: Penguins speaking another language? No problem, Westley gets it
2. Curious George: Curious and PHYSICAL little monkey gets into trouble, esp. when he misunderstands/has to guess at the grownups rules
3. Live 101 Dalmatians (I know, I like the original better, although Glen Close is AWESOME) a. there’s cute live dogs b. the dogs SHOW what they do instead of talking about it
4. The Nutcracker Ballet conceptualized by Maurice Sendek : Dancing, very little words (only a bit of narration), plus you can dance along! (I still can’t believe he’ll watch the close to two hrs)
5. The Cat in the Hat THEATER PLAY (note: not the movie). Rhyming words (which I think helps) and LOTS of PHYSICALITY, that is both easy and fun to copy
6. Most musicals, again because we can enjoy the music even when we don’t follow the plot, BUT there has to be enough music to stay interesting….
Empowerment
Partnerships
One thing that frustrates me about church is when people grudgingly take on tasks.
I don’t know, for me its more fun to be involved and DO things, don’t you want to be a part of whatever is happening?
This week I got the chance to talk to a wonderful lady. Together we planned an arts project in 2 parts: 1 a Family Friendly Art Show 2. A Kids Theater Program (that is very accessible monetarily and hopefully schedulewise).
It was a good hour.
Don’t get me wrong, there will be prep involved, but mostly it just took a spark, an idea.
There will be setup and hosting and taking down.
There will be more planning for part 2
But the way I look at it; it will be LOADS of fun, as most ministry is.
So I’m confused…..do we really begrudge the time & energy that is spent in ministry….or are we just afraid that we are going to have to do it alone!
And for me it took a partnership. So often people don’t want to lead in the church, because they feel like they have to do it alone.
Good News! We don’t have to. God is with us, we are never alone, and God sent us partners! From the gecko, God realized that we work better in Tandem.
Open Space/Open Source Office
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The Mystery of Ministry
“Why would you want to work only 1 day a week, and that’s a half day” –my mother…obviously before she was a pastor, trying to understand why my father was considering the ministry….
Similarly, my friend’s boss once said she wish she could have an easy job, like me…my friend laughed and said that I do all that a CEO does, but with volunteers instead of employees (and morals, although she didn’t tell her boss that)…..
I sometimes think being a pastor is more mysterious than Astrology in Harry Potter
These weeks have been very busy for me, between budget meetings, an emergency with a very troubled family involving the welfare of their children and a funeral…I’ve had to hit the ground running.
The truth about ministry is that it seems very mysterious because not many people know what you do in a week. We are like glaciers. For glaciers usually only 10% of them are visible…and I think only about %10 (that would mean 4 to 5 hrs) of the work of ministry is visible
For one, there is sermon writing…how do you do it? I personally consider it an art, which means that everyone approaches it differently (warning: results are not guaranteed) That alone can take 5-15hrs…Personally I tend to build up from the bulletin. Writing prayers, picking hymns in the context of the scripture help to lead me to the right space (usually)
There’s the office stuff: Paperwork for Presbytery, Newsletters, checking with the secretary (what a blessing that I have one) to see when things will be printed, coordinating sending out things from sympathy cards and flowers to whatever other mailings are necessary (Stewardship materials anyone?)
Then there’s event planning: figuring out the timeline, alerting the appropriate leaders and medias, making sure the time is well advertised and convenient for most
There’s Pastoral Counseling, which often happens spur of the moment, and is so necessary for people’s care
Praying, as often as you can, and trying to include all relevant people in your prayers
Then there is the ministry of presence: which is the time you spend in the office or hanging out not looking busy so people can approach you…
Keeping in contact with those who have dropped out of the loop for whatever reason, and trying to remember to keep the church’s end of the relationship up either personally or (better yet) thru the deacons or hospitality people
Visiting those who are homebound or need home visits as often as possible and trying to build up lay leaders so they can do the same.
Keeping Connectiveness through the congregation by building in real fellowship moments that allow the congregation to draw together and experience God
Running the governmental board, maintaining Christ’s peace and addressing problems as quickly and directly as possible…looking beyond the people in the room towards God’s purpose for whatever is taking place…and then leading other people to that same vision…
Overseeing and checking in with the staff, trying to maintain harmony, set good boundaries and maintain open communication to nip problems in the bud
Advertising, Information and Communicating in as many levels as you can verbally, thru publishing (bulletin, newsletter, etc), thru the internet, to the church, to the community, to those who come, to those who don’t come, to the elderly, to the busy, to the families, to the staff.
Creating/Maintaining or Overseeing Christian Education for the littlest thru the adults
Being available for those Pastoral Care moments of sickness, deaths, births, marriages, major celebrations, moments of personal crises.
Attend big moments for church members (graduations, weddings, funerals, etc), even if they are not directed by the pastor, attending such events is important (and mostly fun) and a part of the job that is often not understood to be work, but are because you go as the “church’s” representative.
Maintaining your own Spiritual practice so you don’t dry up from lack of spiritual nourishment
Building Clergy Connections thru lunches, spiritual friendships, governmental meetings and other proscribed activities (mentoring, peer groups, continuing ed. etc)
Don’t forget the preaching–which is mostly what everyone sees
In addition to this there is overseeing and working on a viable mission (hopefully every church has one)..you know the thing your church does that is really unique and therefore special, so you work really really hard not only to maintain this but to grow it.
To push the church, the staff, the governmental board, the neighborhood to be more Open: Open to new ideas, Open to new (and different) people and cultures, Open to experimenting, Open to failure, Open to unexpected successes, Open to honest assessments, Open to the movements of the Holy Spirit.
Mostly, pastors are there to facilitate, coordinate and teach about our relationships with God and eachother. Sometimes that means stimulating though about this….oftentimes it means spurring people into action. Its not an exact science, but it is an important task…
This is a fairly generalized list of what my job is, it is by no means a job description, but maybe it helps to clarify who pastors are and some of what they do.
Listed: Steampunk
Book Review: Sassy Steampunk–A Study in Silks, A Study in Darkness, A Study in Ashes
Baskerville Affair by Emma Jane Holloway
Evie Cooper is a not quite fashionable young girl living in London in the midst of the Steam Barons Rule.
Part Steampunk, Part Revolution, Part Mystery this book follows the adventures of Evie Cooper and her closest friends during a tumulteous Time.
“You have to decide that for yourself” Variations of this line are put forward by characters of all stripes indicating, strongly, that who you are depends highly on who you decide to be and no one can really tell you how that is going to work out for you….this could be the theme song of the entire book–making me a very happy Katy.
Things I liked about this book
1. Character development (everyone develops, everyone)
2. Fleshed out characters (good and evil more often turn to gray, and love is highly valued)
3. Love Triangles…but they are relevant to the plot
4. London: Victorian Age
5. Steam Punk
6. If you’ve read Holmes (YAY) you get Lotsa extra plot points!
7. Class Revolution: This book takes on income differences and revolution in an interesting way (causing some fun 99% thoughts), down with the Steam Barons….
Things to note: The main character is a little annoying at times (she is definitely a teenager when compared to characters such as Mary Russell) and the plot is not strong on the mystery and be warned there is a love triangle, however the strong characters of which there are many who we get to know and see develop and the play with family dynamics are awesome. And the fact that no one is condemned to be evil if they choose not to be is great (I’m a sucker for redemption) Of course I always love Victorian era women, because if they are awesome by today’s standards they are even more awesome for stepping out in a restrictive age…I love me a rebellious woman
And I hope there is another trilogy exploring this underworld with WAY more Holmes in it….
Books, Kids, Christianity (don’t forget adults)
Books, Kids, Christianity (don’t forget adults)
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